Sometimes someone will come along and try to bully you. Bully you into silence, bully you into fear of walking into a store because they might be there, bully you into not writing because they will make fun of you for it, bully you into any number of things. But the truth is a bully is nothing more than a lowlife insecure being who should be pitied. They make fun of others under the guise of "jokes" it just shows what lowlifes they are. It really is execrable, but they have been at it for so many years never taking the subtle and not so subtle hints of being outside the bounds of good society, religiously and otherwise. When they got looks of disapproval, outrage, and even being slapped, they just laughed because it brought out some kind of sick perverseness to the surface. They have been bullies for years but they never really had the funds to stand on two feet. Now that they have a small fortune, instead of doing good in the world, they continue in their perverseness trying to get revenge on the world, but since they cannot get revenge on those who they deemed actually hurt them, they content themselves on trying to destroy the lives of those who helped them through the years. My family has never had time for bullies because we have always been too busy living our own lives and trying to make the world a better place. Unfortunately, bullies have families too and can end up in one's family. Sometimes a bully ends up being so outlandish and loud because they have so much to hide and they turn on the very people who supported them, helped them, and wanted them to succeed in life. This is what has happened in my family. Everyone and I mean everyone in this life has done something they have regretted, made a mistake, or wished there was something they could have done differently. But a bully, a bully will hide their mistakes from others and paint another picture for "new friends", they push people away who know the truth, who was there to contradict this persona they are trying to exemplify to others. Now a person who isn't a bully, they don't hold these things for "ransom," but a bully does. That is what happened in my family with my aunt and uncle. The tell-all of a bully is the withholding of forgiveness. This is what my aunt and uncle have done. They are withholding forgiveness, which in a sense is really sad because forgiveness is as much for the person giving as it is for the person receiving. But a bully will use their authority to try and manipulate a person and make the truth skewed to their way. My uncle has actually admitted he is toxic "The way toxic people act is because of an internal struggle they bear inside of themselves but is taken out on those around them, or their target... in their minds, they will always find a way to justify the means." They claim that they are the lion (the one who is creating the toxicity and not the "victim" and yet everything they say contradicts this as they claim we are the "lions' creating all the toxicity...interesting how cracks form all around them in their delusional narcissistic "stories." Today I laugh because no matter how one tries to skew the truth, the truth is that there are two sides to every story. One side has been told by my aunt and uncle. This blog is the other side, my side of the story. My uncle and cousin can fist bump all they want and claim that a good day is when the bully gets away with crap. But I warn them of this. God and Angels are watching this unfold and Angels are silent notes taking. Stay up in the night and plot his revenge all he wants (oh...what an online warrior he is), but just as has been done in the past by saints and prophets, so to will my family to follow in their footsteps and live our lives. My uncle and aunt can no more put harm towards my Grandma, they may have ended up with Great Uncle Jim's money, but at what cost, they lost the most precious thing anyone in the world can have. They lost family by their choices. My family is stronger than both Jetta and Darren and we don't have the pressures that Wes and Jan were under when they were taken to court for erroneous charges. A reign of terror only lasts so long, and so does playing the victim, one day they will have played their cards one too many times and will have to face the consequences of their actions. Whether it is in this life or the next it does not matter, because it will come and that is no laughing matter. Truth always comes out.
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