A good day for good intentions

Ah, it all becomes clear now, he once again shows how petty and weak he truly is. he is stuck in a neverending cycle of "knowing others intentions" and because he "knows" other's intentions, he continues to play his mentally ill game. The mythomania has always found it easier to tell lies than the truth. he really does have a mind disease that is deteriorating his ability to differentiate good from bad, truth from fiction, reality from the fanatical state he lives in. So now that I understand what the game was, I can again set the story straight, walk away, and move on. On June 25 2017, I at the time was reading the bible. I came across a verse that spoke to me and I shared it on Facebook. This was the post "As I was reading in the scriptures today I came across this scripture. Samuel 16:7 "...For the Lord seething not as a man seeth: for a man looketh on the outward appearance but the Lord looketh on the heart." God knows what we are going through. He knows the whole story and sees our intent whether it be good or it be bad." A little while later a toxic family member started spreading lies about this post as if he "knew" exactly what I meant by it and started a little "targeting" game. In the mind of the mythomaniac, he 'knows' that this post was about him and his family; when in reality it was not. So what does the mythomaniac do, he lies and he finds my travel blog and he stalks it and he retaliates against what he believes to be "against" him and his family. The funny thing is he just showed his cards, how he really is targeting me and my family. He keeps finding my blog, reading it and devising ways to try and twist it into whatever sick game he can. By his Facebook posts, it has become abundantly clear that they weren’t meant for just anyone, they were targeted and coincide with posts that I had posted, (whereas the post I made did not coincide with any post he made at that time) followed by his fish baited pictures. It all comes down to intentions, what are his intentions... he won that battle but lost the war. My family never instigated anything that we have been falsely accused of, we are not perfect but we are not the monsters my uncle has tried to portray us as he tried to cover up his family's intentional evil actions. This blog has served its purpose, I have not directly spoken to that family in years, but have had to defend my family against their lies. And they have done nothing to rectify the situation. My family has reached out, we have waved the white flag on more than one occasion, we have were not the instigators of this whole mess. My Uncle Aunt and family from the beginning have made fun of others, belittled others, been condescending, rude, trampled on any "peace flag" flown, ignored and gotten angry at any type of reconciliation, they have taken anything that was told in sacred trust and told it to the world with a smirk on their face. Who knows what secrets they are hiding that started this whole "war." They have never been on the defense they have always been the perpetrators and instigators only pretending to be the victim of some fake, false and totally makeup story they created. Their hatred for my family will never be understood, what it was we did all those years ago if you ask them there is no definitive answer, only vague puffed up speech and they will only talk badly about my family because it justifies their pitiful delusions. Their intentions are perfectly clear by their actions which coincide with their intentions, they do not want to reconcile, they only want to continue to live in their delusional world of trying to make my family look the perpetrators when we are not. I dare them to stop and to do family counseling, I highly doubt they will be able to. Karma is their reward, they have to live with their actions as much as I have to live with mine. I am happy in this life, I can look at my life at this moment and know that if I were ever to die, I die with a clear conscious and if I live a long full life, I live it with no regrets. I will say it again "God knows the whole story and sees our intent whether it be good or it be bad." Some of his family may not believe in God but He is real and we all will have to give an accounting of our lives to Him one day, I know what my and my family's intentions and actions have been and it is so far from what her or that family "knew" them to be. They were just mad that their deceit was not uncovered. I have nothing more to say to them.

A good day to be the one that got away

Not nice to post a pic of the dil's feet.. One shouldn't talk about their children that way, but considering how one who always makes fun of others fell right back into that trap. Even if it is true, it not nice (But we have known for years that my uncle likes to go back to his vomit and can't help but make fun of others, even his own children...maybe that is why they have anxiety and keep killing themselves? It certainly appears that way). And yes the admission of hating us is accurate because that is what they do..they hate and in the end, it will cost them. Why they are telling the world it started with his convicted felon child molesting father is beyond me... but to each their own. It's too bad their mentally ill family has to use seat extenders, personally, I have never used one on any of my hundreds of first-class flights. What is a hot pocket? I have heard that only people on food stamps buy them... My family wouldn't know as we have never been that poor. The truth has always been we are not the bullies nor are we the instigators. So can’t be baited... Again they are the ones who have been baited Every time they look at my blog because they can't stay away, they are getting their feet dirty. Every lie and every malicious remark made. He chokes on his vomit. Our very existence annoys them to no end, for they cannot leave us alone (Even though they claim otherwise). Our very lives are a victory because they have to hide their secrets and cannot let go. This blog is out for all the world to see. We did not instigate this, they did years ago to cover up what they did to Uncle Jim, Grandma Lenore and who knows who else; and now are trying to erase it by throwing "we are the victims not the perpetrators to everyone. People can see through it. We know they are not better than us and we have never claimed to be better than them (that must have been their mental illness kicking in and making assumptions), we know that spirituality is an ongoing process and when applied correctly is not a competition (they love to make it into one, again must be that mental illness telling them otherwise). Interesting how their family has always thrown the stones to cover the things they have done especially by making fun of others. Just curious, does this mean he is the adulterer as his family has literally screamed about all the adulterers in their lives, and does this also mean they are the thieves as he huffed and puffed that everyone else was the ones stealing... Y'all have falsely judged the whole family, including each other, for years, maybe that is why some have left this life, they couldn't take the false accusations anymore. We have lived our lives seeing people as honest (with a few exceptions and yes MOST people are moral and decent). But they would want the world to see us as the instigators when in reality it has been their family, we will not take the blame for his actions... We live our lives and as they watch, they have always wanted what we have (not realizing that if they had only been kinder they could have had it) but will never obtain it in this life, unless they reconcile with us and apologize. Until then we will always be the ones that got away...Happiest. They will continue to be the ones who lose because of malintent and lies. They have no power to affect our happiness and no power over our lives. No matter how many lies are told, no matter how much they lash out like a child in a tantrum trying to get our attention, they will never get what they want (Which is for us to disappear and look like the bad guy). We will continue to be the happier ones. Everyone knows the truth that a whale tale is just a lie...we pity them and the family's mental illness that plagues them. Everyone knows they are abusive and enjoy this "framing" game. he has tried to provoke us for a reaction, then claim it as evidence of others' mental stability (being blind to his family's that he has admitted to), evil-mindedness, or something else that implies is everyone else's fault but his own. He has tried (and failed) to divert all attention away from his family's behavior and seek support from his children who are his enablers leading them into his vomit infected muck and mire. his behavior is a reflection upon him and no one else. We all know he is the real stalker, lurking in the dark shadows, addicted to my family unable to turn away... jealous of our successes and happiness. We have always left the negativity in the darkness where it belongs because we have always been and will always be the light that shines.

A good day to Bait a Fish.

That was fast. "Just a note for you. As of today we will never look at your posts, you or your families FB... If you see any fb stuff that you think is about you, it won't be. Just stupid stuff I like. buh Bye" Dave the Dad. It was only a matter of time before his mentally ill ways came back into the limelight and he came crawling out of his dark hole to eat his own vomit again. I know he wants us to hate them, to join him in the muck and mire, but see because we are happy and joyful, there is no reason to hate, there is no reason to fight there is only cause to correct their falshoods, we pity them, to feel sorry for them that they have to make us out to be the bad guys to cover up their actions. he cannot get over himself, that they cannot stop making fun of others, that he cannot stop his hatred and jealousy. That he can't help but get caught with his own bait... We pray for them.