A good day to talk about family

Better to have a smaller home full of Laughter, Happiness, and Family then to have a big empty house because the kids are "too old to live there." I guess their thinking is "Better to have them (2 families) in welfare housing and live off the government even though they have degrees." 2 got lucky in their marriages one because her husband got a wrongful death settlement from his mother's death and the others who ran away as soon as she could and doesn't believe in the afterlife, started in an apartment (I remember I went and saw them) and don't forget he lived in a house that had dirt floors, he accepted money for house payments because he couldn't make it on his own. Talk about judging others, which he claims he doesn't want to be done to him, yet he can't help but put others down and judge them. he claims that he wants us to leave him alone, but yet he continues to try and pick a fight, that we all know he will lose. he tries to make fun of (surprise, surprise) of things he has no idea about. Nice try but the lies are only in his delusional mind. The lies fade away (can't even get birthday's right, or maybe that was on purpose too because y'all can't help but lie) and truth always comes out, no matter how he tried to slander, bully, and flat out lie. he lives in a glass house as much as the rest of us. All his actions show is that he is a cowardly narcissistic bully with children who are his enablers. BTW the argument is null and void because the person isn't a believer. It is going to be a surprise to them (and maybe him too) when they all have to answer to a God they don't believe in....makes me wonder if the whole church thing a front for them too... I am Grateful my Mum keeps an open-door policy, that I can live with my family intermittently and get to spend time with them. Once again he is unable to comprehend the blessings that have come to our family because Over the years I have been able to live in the same home.

A good day to carry on

First of all...The Febreeze he was trying to spray, turned out to smell like resentment, unmanaged anger issues, bitterness, and jealousy...maybe they all need to go get some counseling. There is no restraining order and never was, a lie in writing. Second, there is not a stalking order against me. Third very passive-aggressive of him to try to invalidate my grief and healing process. If we have always had a low character, why didn't he say so a long time ago, instead he waited until just recently to say that we have low character (whatever that means)? Over the years his family accepted money, house payments, car payments, food, Christmas presents, clothing, and other things from us...if we are of such low character why did they take what we had to offer? We were good enough then, we were also good enough when we came and humbly asked him for priesthood blessings, we were good enough when they came and picked us up after a bad situation occurred with my Dad, we were good enough when we asked for their help (unbeknownst to us they were feeding lies to my stepdad at that time) if we were such “scum” why not tell us to our face? We were good enough until my Mum told him that he couldn't take over Grandma's finances and then we were definitely were no longer any good when we asked questions about Uncle Jim. When his family lied to my StepDad (It didn't matter in the end my StepDad and Mum are good friends to this day (He paid for her attorney's against their lies...FYI). That was when the rift between families happened and Jetta didn't want to be a part of it, so she reached out to us. The only hole that has ever been in existence is the one he created, there is no hole for myself or my family. If we really are the bad people they say we are, they would sick the people who ask to come after us to really do it. I will gladly share with them that post. But they don't because they know deep down that if they do come after us, they would find out the truth, that we are not the type of people they make us out to be. They would know us, as well as them, the only "side" in this feud has been created by him, our door has always been open for reconciliation and family counseling, it is they who calls us names, keep the door closed and say's that we are "horrid" people. Horrid behavior? Horrid for asking the same questions they have? Horrid because we made Scott dinner and tried to bring it over, doing recon beforehand because it seemed the best course? (BTW Becky was out of line for making FALSE ASSUMPTIONS and lying to a coworker) Horrid for reaching out and offering condolences? Horrid for trying to give an old woman, Jetta's Grandma/Sue's Mother, her wish to have a picture of Jetta's funeral? (Because they all lied and told her she could say goodbye at the hospital and when she was ready to go, was told Jetta has already been taken away). Horrid for sending flowers? Horrid for sharing gofundme accounts to help Scott, Ziva, and Wade? Horrid for giving money to said Godfundmeaccount? Horrid for telling the world that she had a relationship with Grandma and my family? Horrid because we questioned her choices in burglarizing another person's home because she felt she had nowhere (HER OWN WORDS) to turn? Horrid for stating what she told us in conversations that she just wanted out of St. George? Horrid for visiting her in the hospital to see how we could help and instead, having to say goodbye one last time? Horrid for reaching out to Prissy and giving her a hug? Horrid for letting the name-calling slide by when pm'd me on Facebook and lied? Horrid for posting a picture of her to memorialize her life? Horrid for making a plea deal because that was less contentious? Horrid for turning to God in grief? Horrid for delivering birthday cards because Grandma asked us to? Horrid for trying to contact Sue and get her to visit her dying Mother (talk about no empathy)? Horrid for loving an imperfect cousin? If these things make one a horrid person, then I guess I am a "horrid" person. I will continue to grieve over the lost life of my cousin and because they are blinded by anger, everything I post, in his mentally ill mind will be about him and it will be horrid things I say because according to what he judges is bad behavior and he throws "stones" by his name-calling. So the most "horrid" thing I can say is "No matter what hateful things they spew and names he calls, I hope they find peace and let it go. Grieve their daughter's death in the manner they wish and I will grieve her death in my way." Love always wins. BTW that post on the 25th has nothing to do with Jetta's death, them or their family, I just like it. Maybe they shouldn't think that everything I post is about them or their (unlike their targeted fish baiting posts) family...it isn't, stop Cyberstalking me, I dare him.