Good day to address the hidden comments

Addressing the stalker-like comments, my uncle dave or someone using his account left on my traveling post, he(they) didn't even have the honesty to post them to the actual posts he(they) was(were) addressing. My family spoke to Uncle Rick and Aunt Elizabeth about what he had said, showed them the comments, in fact, they know nothing of what he speaks. he nor anyone in his family actually spoke with them and are lying. Since none have spoken to their Mother-in-law, my Grandma in years, how would they know about her financial status of her insurance policy? It would not have mattered how we did funeral services for Grandma, because of the way they have chosen to think and act, he searched to find something wrong with it. Some way to criticize the way it was handled, this is what they have done to drive the wedge between our families. A way for them to placate their anger, hatred, and jealousy towards others. It also, in his mind, vindicates why they chose to abandon their family. As for my traveling, I have been traveling first class for years and going on vacation around the world for years never relying on others. I have been taking my Mum on Mother's day trips for years. In no way was Grandma's money used, but they will never believe us because (typical catfish trick to try and get us to divulge how much or little she actually had). In their minds, they have already judged us and found us guilty of whatever sins they have created in their delusional mind. their jealousy reeks when he falsely claimed we used the money from funeral expenses to travel. As for comments made on LDS.org, NOT US, those were words from Grandma, she was competent and knew who she was up until her last breath so their blame is misplaced. Maybe they should talk to the lady from her ward who helped her in Family Search. But he just loves to assume that it is my family's fault, anything to blame my Mum and family (taking no responsibility for his or his family's part). they have misplaced blame, the posts came from Grandma Lenore. His mental illness, that he has admitted runs in his family, and paranoia show, having to "interfere" shows his admittance to stalking my family, keeping tabs on business, personal finance, etc. he likes to bring up the past about my Father (not one person deny's his wrongdoing. He has paid his price and has with the power of the atonement been able to move on with his life. he is very quick to make judgments and point fingers at everyone else while trying to hide his own past and things he personally has done, (never apologizing for his own behavior) people he personally has cheated and lied to. This is his way unless he decides to change and reconcile and put the past in the past, it will continue to come up. his choice to interfere shows his character, especially when the blame has been misplaced. he has used my family as a scapegoat for years in order to not feel bad about the choices made by him or his children who are his enablers. As to Jetta, She never should have burglarized that woman's home, but since they have diagnosed her with bipolar depression, hopefully, that was something to do with what she did and caused her to feel entitled to steal that woman's stuff, Jessica made a poor decision and was going to have to face the consequences of her choice even if she did have bipolar depression, it did not give her the right to steal from another. Even knowing all that Jetta did, the choices she chose to make, I still love her. I am grateful that she came and knew Grandma Lenore, that she admitted to not being perfect but still willing to apologize and to forgive us as well. Part of her burden I believe it was that she kept the fact that she had the start of a healthy relationship with Grandma, me and my family. From what I have observed over the years, from talking with different cousins over the years, is a family that does have hate in their hearts in the way they treat people and treat each other. The fights between sisters, manipulation tactics to control the kids, the accusations that were told to my family about molestation (either his family member is a liar or the family is lying to cover it up... either way, the manipulation, and lying came from their family). Reconciliation efforts are not harassment, and if they are taken as such, then there is counseling that needs to be done. they want to talk about inflicting hurt and conflict, his family has tried to deny my family of being able to experience grief for the loss of a family member, Scott lied and told us we could come to the graveside. Grandma was lied to about seeing Jessica one last time and gave her false information and denied from holding Jetta's hand one last time to say goodbye. As to Jim, they alienated all 10 cousin's (Uncle Jim's nieces and nephews which would have been the normal and right thing to do in regards to his health if he really was being abused) from seeing him and acting as if his family was the only ones who could "save" him...when it was never just their family's decision to make, they took that from the rest of the Mullins family. The stalking injunction goes both ways cyber too so that he freely admits to searching out my mum and finding what she posts (if it even is her)... shows the level of stalker he is. I am not insinuating Jetta was surrounded by hate, I am describing what she told us..again their hatred is misplaced he should blame his daughter for painting such a morbid picture of life in their "loving" home. So now he degrades himself to calling my family names...that he actually takes the time to leave comments on my blog (again who is the stalker here?)shows his narcissistic ways. they are unable to allow another to tell the other side of the story without trying to control how it is perceived. I put Jessica's information on Family Search because I am part of her Family. I made a promise to her I would in a conversation we had a long time ago, so again their hatred and blame are misplaced. But their family cannot stand that someone else loves her beside them. I do know what spirit I am of but again he has chosen to make judgments against my family that are false, he denies forgiveness, he denies and will not allow any reconciliation attempt and effort. I quote him " It may be as simple as contact=conflict." The conflict is NOT on my family's part, our door has always been open for reconciliation, we have sincerely apologized and made an effort to reach out in peace. But their family has rebuffed us in every manner, including going to family counseling that was advised. they instead went to lawyers, lied and skewed events that happened. I never held down anyone so that another could punch them if that were true, the police would have been called and I would have gone to jail, but it isn't true, it is a falsehood made up by mythomania. Nor were any Hippa laws broken when we found out about Jetta... It is called having friends who care. Funny how they ask my family to stay out of their lives, but yet they cannot stay out of ours...it is not a one-sided deal. his narcissism is again showing, There are many other things besides reading to do on a long flight. Just because he read one book on Borderline Personality Disorders, does not make him my therapist and therefore he should follow his own counsel that he keeps wanting to give my family. As to me being married, I do not have to justify myself to them or anyone else... I have happy and healthy relationships (unlike the relationships their children have) and that is all they need to know.