It is sad the delusional state that y'all have to live in now. Finding the definition to your unacceptable behavior has taken some time but the truth has always been there. Stonewalling. Over the years you all were the ones who refused to talk, to communicate, who falsely accused, who bullied and harassed, who made fun of others, who twisted the truth, who evaded accountability, and refused to forgive when the opportunity presented itself.
Y’all let your narcissistic behavior run wild until there was no turning back. You claim that there was a lot done to you, but you never actually say what it is that was done to you. Instead, you have stonewalled, gaslighted, and deflected. In the end, all that happened is you lost, you lost family, relationships, faith, reputation, opportunity, and growth. And you all just crawled back into the shadows like cockroaches (as so aptly put by your daughter). We will always be healthier and happier living our lives to the fullest. We will always feel sorry for you all and the trauma you have to deal with.