“When you people feel hurt, angry, or envious, it is quite easy to judge other people often assigning dark motives to our actions in order to justify your own feelings of resentment.” But remember “Seeing that ye know the light by which ye may judge, see that you do not judge wrongfully; for, with that same judgment which you judge, you shall also be judged.” This has been turned over to God. We have risen above your pettiness and envyings and have moved on. One day you will have to resolve this and the responsibility of you forgiving us falls on your shoulders. The Savior heals all. The End
A woman once told a story about how she walked into a room where a couple of friends were discussing her, they didn’t know she was there. She decided she needed better friends and so she healed and continued to live her life.
She also told a story about she had a friend who talked bad about her, she healed from that incident and continued to live life.
She told how her family chose to shift her out of their life because she stood up for herself, her own children, her Mother, her nieces, and nephews, including a nephew-in-law. She spoke against their bullying and name-calling and she wouldn't join in their manipulation tactics, so they shunned her. They turned on her and called her names, twisted the truth, and lied about her. And because she stopped crossing oceans for them (she had crossed many for them helping them when they lived in a dirt floor home, buying School clothes, groceries, giving their children summer jobs, letting them stay in her home and many more good things did she do for them), they would not even help her cross a single bridge, they betrayed her, gossiped about her, stole from her, and spewed more falsehoods. So she healed and continued to live her life.
Over the years she has lived her life grateful for her blessings, she is healthy and happy. They tried to destroy her but she won, she continues to love life and has a happy heart.
They could not break her nor could they destroy her. They continue to live in a delusional state talking bad about her...trying with their feeble attempts to hurt her, but they cannot touch her for she has healed and is living life to the fullest.
See, it is ok to process and heal from abusive, narcissistic people who betray. The key is to put healthy boundaries in place, take responsibility, put it in the Lord's hands, and enjoy this journey called life.
