A good day for good riddance

The impasse. According to his little mind: If I refute the lies I have been “fish baited” if I don’t I have been “squashed” as a mosquito. The truth has always been we are not the bullies nor are we the instigators. So can’t be baited and can’t be squashed... My uncle is the one who has been baited and squashed. Every time he looks us up he has been baited, every lie and every malicious remark made, he is squashed a little bit more. He chokes himself with the noose he put around his neck. Our very existence annoys him to no end. Our very lives are a victory because he cannot let go. This blog is out for all the world to see and he is the one who will be baited time and time again... every time he comes to this blog he is on the hook and becomes like the drug addict who needs their hit, his disease is not being able to stop stalking and spying on my family... Probably because he wants what we have and will never obtain it in this life. When I had heard that my uncle had died, I wanted to know so I checked to confirm the truth... but low and behold it was a confirmation that he can not let it go, he and his family lost, he pretends to have won, but he lost. In the great day of Judgement, he will have to stand before our maker and account for what he has done. The only way he will ever win is to apologize, but as he reads this, we both know he could not ever do that, the mental illness that runs in his family would never allow him to make amends and that is why unless he and his family make amends, he will always and forever be the loser. That he has to keep stalking, how was it that his daughter put it, oh yes. Like a cockroach crawling out of its hole is what he will continue to do. This blog has always been a way for me to combat his filthy feet. He cannot stay away and like a dog to its vomit, he will come here, again and again, looking for a way to get into my family’s life. Always on the outskirts looking in. With no power. No matter how much his ego lies to him. He will never have any power to destroy my family. No power to affect our happiness and no power over our lives. No matter how many lies are told, no matter how much he lashes out like a child in a tantrum trying to get our attention, he will never get what he wants because like a cockroach he has no power. We will always be the happier ones and have the last laugh victoriously either with or without y'all. #Theonesthatgotaway

A good day to call out the real Stalker.

They had to search my blog out. Funny. (I had heard that one of them had died and was just checking to see. Mental illness runs in their family...) I got Proof they could not stop attacking us, that they would not be able to let it go. They really are narcissistic people. It was only a matter of time before they showed their true colors and started in on their snide, judgemental, and false comments again. It really is sad.

A good day to say what is on my mind

The truth always comes out and my family has done what we always have, we live. We have never hidden from the world, we have never crawled into any holes, we do not turn tail even when life is difficult. We have always found joy in the journey, we have always found that there are flowers even in the desert. We travel, we work, we have hobbies, we have friends, church callings, we buckle down and put our shoulder to the wheel, and we have each other. I know he nor any of his family will ever understand us because they all have chosen not to. The problem is that they have become so offended that for whatever reason he continues in trying to tear my family down. We do not tear down the faith that becky has, she was a role model for me and helped inspired me to want to go on a mission. Now her actions later on when she chose to say unkind and outright lies that was not so inspiring. We were proud of dan for stepping up and marrying bari after he got her pregnant, we went to his college graduation to show our support, his actions later on also were uncalled for when he didn't return grandma's photos and over the years the lies he and his wife have told. We have never questioned the things Bethany told us and are happy that she and her family are living life to the fullest, sad that for whatever reason she puts down the church she grew up in and the faith we believe in. guy the best thing that ever happened to him was marrying Sabrina, that he decided to lose his temper at Jetta's funeral was very out of line. We mourned and continue to mourn both Jetta's and Darren's deaths and will always have questions. Interesting that supposedly the dan incident was "coincidental" when every one of them knows where and who I work for. But in their minds, it was "On purpose" that I happened to walk into an open business where someone who isn't even related to them happens to work. It isn't just simple contact equally conflict, it is a mentality to scream when something doesn't go his way. I took my business elsewhere, we have moved on and moved forward with our lives.