A good day to be real

The most interesting part of everything that has happened over the years family is the way the toxic people have tried to bulldoze through life, never stopping to clean up their mess. They have thrown every stone in their arsenal accusing others, blaming everyone, never taking any responsibility for their own actions, never stopping to think that the way they have treated others is the reason others have stepped away from them. They have continually used people for their own monetary gain all the while touting about the "good" actions they want the world to see. They have made fun of every family member (no one has been exempt from their cruelty) nicknames for us all. They have always been the first to be critical and judgemental towards someone who was trying their best in a challenging situation. Instead of helping out, they pushed and shoved, ran away and hid until all the work was done...and they could look like the "good guy" without any of the sacrifices that go with being a good person. They tout "pure love" but yet they do not practice what they preach. The things they have said all these years are fake and have rung untrue. If they really lived what they believed, they would have talked, they would have worked through reconciliation, they would have taken ownership of their actions, and they would own up to the lies they have told over the years. They would actually think of others before doing something instead of worrying about how it will make them look. They claim to be Good Sameritaians but in actuality are pharasees. Time and Time again, they have shown that they do not know how to, they believe the lies they have been telling for so many years that it has become a sickness. Their talk is cheap... If they really have the pure love of Christ that they so claim then they would not have done the things they did. They do not understand that Love and following the Savior is not a competition, it is not about showing off...it is about making things right. Maybe they will start now... for a Brother and Sister are still alive. Even though her Mother is no longer here, there is still time to practice the pure love of Christ.